Forgiveness: The Art of Moving Forward

“Sometimes we don’t forgive people because they deserve it. We forgive them because we need it, and because we cannot move forward without it.” (Unknown)

It’s interesting that “unforgiveness” is not recognized by MS Word 2013. I had to add it to the dictionary. We have the ability to choose whether someone is forgiven, or unforgiven. If they offend us, it is up to us whether we choose to forgive them, or not. It is our choice whether we live in unforgiveness, or forgiveness.

I know that in my lifetime I have offended people; some more than others. I am very thankful that I have been forgiven, at least by the ones I know about. I hope that there are not too many who have not…

Like you, I have also felt the pain of being hurt by the actions and words of another person. Funny how we can remember what others have done to us and easily forget the offenses we have committed. I wish it were the other way around. Maybe then I would be slower to speak and quicker to forgive.

As an offense is a choice I make, so is forgiveness. It’s not easy, but it is necessary if I am going to move forward in Christ: And forgive us our debts (sins) as we also forgive our debtors (those that have sinned against us) – Matthew 6:12.

After all, isn't that what Christ did for us when we asked Him forgive us of our sins? Isn't that what He asked His Father to do for those who crucified Him: Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing – Luke 23:34.

The story of the prodigal son(s) is more about the graciousness of the father. So it is with God. I’m not sure which son you were like, but the Father’s grace should compel us to walk in a state of forgiveness. I know we are only human, but we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works – (Ephesians 2:10). What better work than to walk in forgiveness?

The Lord bless you and keep you; The Lord make His face shine upon you, and be kind to you; The Lord lift up His countenance on you, and give you peace – (Numbers 6:25-26)

Blessings my human friends. May we walk in forgiveness...