The Art of Listening

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”

― Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

I remember reading Covey’s book many years ago. There is not a day where I don’t stop and think “did I really listen today?” I’m still a work-in-progress. If I am not listening to understand, then it’s no wonder the art of communication is absent in some of my human connections. Everyone is talking, but not many are listening. I can demand to be heard, but do I want to truly understand the heart of another person?

So it is in my relationship with God. I wonder what He thinks of my prayer list. It looks really selfish sometimes; it’s all about me and my wants, needs, desires, plans, hopes, dreams, etc. Is there room for anyone else? Ouch! My prayer list can look like a gripe list rather than a list of compassion for others.  Martin Luther said, “the fewer the words, the better the prayer.”

Imagine what our prayer life would be like if we applied the same principle? If we could be still and silent in God’s presence long enough to hear and understand His heart, imagine the impact on our listening skills as they relate to our daily interactions?

Matthew records the words of Jesus: “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” OK, God, I hear you…

"Listen to me, you who pursue righteousness, Who seek the LORD: Look to the rock from which you were hewn, And to the quarry from which you were dug.” Isaiah 51:1

“My soul waits in silence for God only; From Him is my salvation.” Psalm 62:1

Are we listening...